redneck woman's blog: "every day things"

A POEM ABOUT OUR GIRLFRIENDS......... Someone will always be prettier. Some will always be smarter. Some of their houses will be bigger. Some will drive a better car. Their children will do better in school. And their husband will fix more things around the house. So let it go, and love you and your circumstances. Think about it! The prettiest woman in the world can have hell in her heart. And the most highly favored woman on your job may be unable to have children. And the richest woman you know, she's got the car, the house, the clothes.... might be lonely. And the word says, "If I have not Love, I am nothing." So, again, love you. Love who you are. Look in the mirror in the morning and smile and say, "I am too blessed to be stressed and too anointed, to be disappointed!" "Winners make things happen-- Losers let things happen." Be "blessed" ladies..... and pass this on to encourage another woman.

RULES FOR THE LADIES 1. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. 2. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. 3. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship.if he can't accept who you are, fuck him. 4. Never live your life for a man. 5. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. 6. Don't settle. 7. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. 8. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." 9. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. 10. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant.Why would he treat you any differently? 11. Always have your own set of friends separate from his. 12. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. 13. If something bothers you, speak up. 14. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. 15 You cannot change a man's behavior. 16. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you 17.Never let a man define who you are. 18. Never borrow someone else's man. ......... UMMMMM!!! ( I'm sorry, BTTT usually when I really want something, I get it, LOL) 19. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. 20. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. 21. All men are NOT dogs. 22. You should not be the one doing all the bending ...compromise is a two-way street. 23. You need time to heal between relationships. 24. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship 25. Don't complain to your new guy about how much of an ass hole your ex was. He doesn't want to deal with all that baggage. 26. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. 27.Look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. 28. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. 26. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. 27.Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. 28. A man is never to busy for a women he cares about. If he really wants to see you, he will make time for you. 29. You can't buy a mans love. 30. There is no such thing as " I have a bunch of female friends". . . 9 times out of 10 they are women that he's currently sleeping with or have been with in the past. 31. Don't fight for a man. If he want's you, he will be with you. 33. If you're good enough to sleep with, you're good enough to be taken out.

Current mood: depressed Why do some people think that the only thing that matters is money? Like people don't have hard times... When you are in a relationship you are supposed to accept the help you are offered (appreciate it, yes)...but accept it. It's okay to do that as long as you are willing to offer that up in return... People don't get it! Instead of just saying thank you they end relationships and leave the person willing to help them behind... I'll never understand... This is the last time I'll put my heart on the line...I thought we were different... I guess not :-(

Current mood: good Some think a cowboy is suppose to be tall and lean, good lookin' of course with tight fittn' jeans, A thin wiry frame with legs slightly bowed, with his pants tucked inside for his boots to be showed. He rides a fancy pony if he rides for the cattle, and atop his steed sets mighty a fancy saddle. His hat is a Stetson that's creased to his style, he's got a big silver buckle you can see for a mile. Oh he struts like a peacock with a bit of a swagger, talk about ropin' n ridin', he's a bit of a bragger. Why he could rope the wind if given half a chance, and steal any lady heart with one handsome glance. Now I've know some good cowboys who were tall & lean, but most I have known were not cut to be mean. Most know the work and are caring endowed, this leaves little time to strut around proud. But purdy of course don't make a buckaroo, and it don't help a bit if yer horse lost a shoe. And that buckle he bought can't doctor a cow, and workin' stock, . . . well ya gotta know how. I know a passel of cowboys and most ain't even cute, but I sure want them with me when I'm loading the chute. When workin the stock they don't need to brag, they're always first to join in when ridin' the drag. Some are short and stout and some right down fat, but when it comes to the job that's right where they're at. Truth is most cowboys don't fit a physical description, To think they're all tall and good lookin,' is just plain down right fiction. Now I'm a cowboy who is not real tall or even good lookin', I'm no different from most and I know who I'am

Current mood: determined This is just a thought on "True Love" We all wander around life looking for it or wondering if the one we are with is really the right one but I am begining to think there is no such thing as a real true love?? I mean we have all loved and hopefully felt love but who is to say that it was real Do any of you know what REAL love even is? My mom used to say when I was growing up I would just know it when I felt it,Well I thought I felt it but then again for it to be real then I think you both have to feel it or it is not worth feeling!! I am not being negative or saying that NOBODY has ever felt it I am simply saying I don't agree that there is someone for everyone.I feel the only true love a person can know is the love between a parent and a child. My children and parents will probably be the only ones that I will love and will love me unconditionally!!I have a great deal of love for my friends and other family members but feel that none of them would be devastated if I were gone..Yes some would miss me and some may even cry but they would get over it a lot sooner than the others..I have realized in the past few weeks that when you feel you truly love that one person and they say they love you in return make sure it is the same love you feel that never ending every heart beat kind of love and never think for a moment that they may be saying something different than they are feeling because if you set yourself up for heartache then that is exactly what you are going to get.HURT!!I know realize that there is many forms of love and that some people are just not capable of really loving in return allthough they recieve love perfectly.. I have been in love with a person for quite awhile but apparently I should have listened when I was told not to fall for him and to turn around and run when I started getting feelings but like a dumb ass I stayed and now again I feel like I was not good enough or not pretty enough you know all the usual feelings after losing to love ..Or whatever you want to call it.Since I now know of my mistake of giving to much I will do my best to only give love to those that are worthy of it ! To those of you who know who this is directed to you know how I feel by knowing me, to those who do not then please just take my advice and only love those who are in deservence of your best gift you could ever offer and don't trust any other whom does not deserve it..

Current mood: crushed Well I have learned a few very good lessons this week.1) I learned as they always say live every day as if it were your last because you never know when that gift will be taken away! 2) I have learned your children are more grown up and intellegent than you give them credit for. 3)All men cheat whether it is in a marriage in a friendship or in any other form of relationship.. Men cannot commit to one woman due to thinking with the wrong head.. They also do not understand the cocept of friendship because if they did they would not treat their friends like a piece of shit unless of course they were going to benefit from it which is why they have a split personality one to be loving and caring and one to be HATEFUL and HURTFUL... I honestly thought having a male BESTFRIEND was smart because they would not want to sleep with your husband or boyfriend(i hope anyway) But it turns out male friends are no different than females! They still lie and stab you in the back as soon as they think your not looking..The only difference is I trusted the male more because I thought I was important to him and it turns out I am just a disposable piece of trash that he will eventually take to the dump with the rest of the trash in the yard.. So to all you who read this feel free to comment or simply realize that no body but you is worth the pain and hurt that other seem to give you If you want pain choose it if you want happiness then don't trust anybody with your Heart or your feelings because they will stomp on them every chance they get....

Current mood: aggravated Why is it that your spouse wants a divorce and gets a new girlfriend, But then he decides that he loves you and wants to date you and feels like if he has problems with the new fling it's ok to talk to you about it and let's you know that she is making his life a living hell... But yet he refuses to throw her out even though he had no problem throwing you and your two children out with no where else to go!She is 22 and apparently wants to act like his mother rather than his girlfriend!!!!I just wish he would make up his mind to throw her stupid ass out and either be single or work on our marriage!!!just a little rant to vent a little !!!!!!!!!

Current mood: bitchy Why is it that after you break up the ex still thinks he can control your every move and thought..Do they not realize that they lose that right the day the relationship ends??? It's amazing whether you are in a relationship,breaking up or even just have slept together men always have to have control..Well I think it's time women stand up for themselves and let these assholes know that god gave us our own bodies and brains for a reason!And NO it was'nt for us to wait on men take care of men or even have sex with them!!It was because god knows he screwed up by making men first and that women had to be here to pick up after the men and help them do everything outside of wiping their asses and hell when they get old enough they expect that too!!! So my outlook if they can't return your love and interest and ability to feel then they can all kiss my ass!!!I would rather be alone with my children and know that I never have to feel like a possession or a trophy again.. And I will deffinetly never feel like a PIECE OF ASS again! So in closing SCREW YOU to the males in the world and good nite to the women with enough back bone to stand up to them....

Two rednecks decided they weren't going anywhere in life, and thought they should go to college to get ahead. The first redneck went in to see the counselor, who told him to take Math, History, and Logic. "What's Logic?" the first redneck asked. The professor answered by saying, "Let me give you an example. Do you own a weed eater?" "I sure do." said the first redneck. "Then I can assume, using logic, that you have a yard," replied the professor. "That's real good!" said the redneck. The professor continued, "Logic will also tell me that since you have a yard, you also own a house." Impressed, the redneck said, "Amazin!" "And since you own a house, logic dictates that you have a wife," continued the professor. "That's Betty Mae! This is incredible!" The redneck is obviously catching on. "Finally, since you have a wife, logically I can assume that you are heterosexual," said the professor. "You're absolutely right!" exclaimed the redneck. Why that's the most fascinatin' thing I ever heard! I cain't wait to take that logic class!!" The redneck, proud of the new world opening up to him, walked back into the hallway, where his friend was still waiting. "So what classes are ya takin'?" asked the friend. "Math, History, and Logic!" replied the first redneck. "What in tarnation is logic???" asked his friend. "Let me give you an example. Do ya own a weed eater?" asked the first redneck. "No," his friend replied. "You're QUEER, ain't ya?"

HOW BAD R U WANTED Post this and see what number people send you....don't be scared!! (1) just friends (2) gorgeous (3) cute as heck (4) hot (5) fine (6) sexy (7) amazingly sexy (8) we can be friends with benefits (9) id take u to my crib (10) i want 2 make u my gf/bf (11) i love u baby (12) call me.....(__)____-___ repost this or see 9 years of bad realationships repost HOW BAD R U WANTED